so today i went and had my root canal finished up. it took two hours! and it was just as horrible as the first visit. plus it's costing me boatloads. i wonder if i should just have them all yanked out and get dentures? okay, maybe not, they aren' that bad, but i HATE spending my money on getting tortured in the dentist's chair for hours on end. i had expected i would be able to go back to work, but i look like i am paralyzed on the left side of my face and i don't feel like being the butt of jokes there, so i'm working from home this afternoon. i'm in pain, but no vicodin for me today. just good old fashioned advil, once i'm sure i won't swallow my tounge trying to take it. i'm still pretty numb.
bf and i sort of made up last night, but there was no dirty fun involved, and things were definitely not back to normal. then today he got mad at me again when he came home for lunch. i was giving him crap for having a photo of an ex girlfriend in our photo file on the computer. i said it in a kidding tone, or so i thought. but perhaps it didn't actually come out that way. and now we're in a heated im conversation. i'm not good at fighting. i never really have been. it makes me want to curl into a ball and cry. and i'm generally not a wimpy or emotional person.
why do i write such detail about our fights? no one else does! i guess i find it oddly therapuetic, to blog about my problems, to "air my dirty laundry" so to speak. then i am usually embarassed when i go back and read them later.
honestly, i would rather be writing about things that are funny.
Showing posts with label drama. Show all posts
Showing posts with label drama. Show all posts
5.16.2007
pet peeve of the day...
people who fight dirty.
because i know i am wrong sometimes. or, make that a lot. i know i say dumb things. but is it necessary to throw it in my face? is it necessary to be so stinking MEAN?
i forgive easily. why can't you?
because i know i am wrong sometimes. or, make that a lot. i know i say dumb things. but is it necessary to throw it in my face? is it necessary to be so stinking MEAN?
i forgive easily. why can't you?
5.07.2007
modern day family
the wedding event this past weekend was delicious fare for all of the small town gossips in attendance. you could just see them soaking it all in with delight. i bet they had a very good response rate to their invitations. here are just a few of the highlights:
1. the bf and his sister are Korean. they were adopted together when the bf was five and his sister was two.
2. the bf's adopted mom passed away about six-seven years ago.
3. the bride left her first husband for the groom about four years ago.
4. the bride has a daughter who is a lesbian.
5. the bride's lesbian daughter is "married" and she and her partner have a two year old daughter.
6. the bride's lesbian daughter's partner is pregnant.
7. the bf's ex-wife was at the wedding.
8. the bf's ex-wife and her boyfriend manned the guest book at the reception and were listed on the program as the "host and hostess".
9. the bf's ex-wife took a picture of the bf, her kids, my kids and i. i returned the favor and took a picture of her, her bf and the kids.
10. the bf's ex-wife stopped over and chatted with me for a bit, you could almost hear the strain of one hundred pairs of ears trying to catch what we were saying.
1. the bf and his sister are Korean. they were adopted together when the bf was five and his sister was two.
2. the bf's adopted mom passed away about six-seven years ago.
3. the bride left her first husband for the groom about four years ago.
4. the bride has a daughter who is a lesbian.
5. the bride's lesbian daughter is "married" and she and her partner have a two year old daughter.
6. the bride's lesbian daughter's partner is pregnant.
7. the bf's ex-wife was at the wedding.
8. the bf's ex-wife and her boyfriend manned the guest book at the reception and were listed on the program as the "host and hostess".
9. the bf's ex-wife took a picture of the bf, her kids, my kids and i. i returned the favor and took a picture of her, her bf and the kids.
10. the bf's ex-wife stopped over and chatted with me for a bit, you could almost hear the strain of one hundred pairs of ears trying to catch what we were saying.
3.12.2007
seriously?
last night when the kiddos got back from their dad's house, my five year old, ky, told us that her brother had been really naughty to her while they were there. she said that when her dad was in the shower, her three year old brother had done the following:
1. hit her.
2. punched her.
3. bit her. twice.
4. threw a shoe at her.
5. kicked her.
6. spit at her.
this is basically the exact same story she told last time they got home from their dad's. and ko got in BIG trouble. i think she enjoyed that. needless to say, we were a slight bit suspicios about her tale last night. so, the bf and i decided to quiz her a bit. the following is based on our actual exchange.
us: "so, ky...your brother was naughty to you again?"
ky: "yes!"
us: "what did he do to you?"
ky: "he hit me, and he punched me, and he spit in my eyes, and he kicked me, and threw a shoe at me, and he bit me here and here."
us: "really?"
ky: "yes." (looks all sad)
us: "so, did he kick you in the knee?"
ky: "yes."
us: "did he kick you in the other knee?"
ky: "yes."
us: "did he kick you in the back?"
ky: "yes."
us: "how about in the stomach?"
ky: "yes."
us: "did he throw a shoe at you?"
ky: "yes."
us: "did he throw four shoes at you?"
ky: "yes."
us: "really? four shoes?"
ky: "uh huh." (looks a bit worried)
us: "did he throw eight shoes at you?"
ky: "yes." (starting to sweat)
us: "are you sure? he really threw eight shoes at you?"
ky: nods.
us: "wow. that's a lot of shoes."
ky: "uh huh."
us: "are you sure all of this happened?"
ky: "yes..." (looks a bit nervous)
a bit more quizzing revealed that my dearest daughter had been lying through her teeth about her brother. thank goodness the bf was there with me, because i found the whole exchange to be hysterically funny. i felt like we were laywers. for the prosecution. i could barely contain my giggles.
seriously.
1. hit her.
2. punched her.
3. bit her. twice.
4. threw a shoe at her.
5. kicked her.
6. spit at her.
this is basically the exact same story she told last time they got home from their dad's. and ko got in BIG trouble. i think she enjoyed that. needless to say, we were a slight bit suspicios about her tale last night. so, the bf and i decided to quiz her a bit. the following is based on our actual exchange.
us: "so, ky...your brother was naughty to you again?"
ky: "yes!"
us: "what did he do to you?"
ky: "he hit me, and he punched me, and he spit in my eyes, and he kicked me, and threw a shoe at me, and he bit me here and here."
us: "really?"
ky: "yes." (looks all sad)
us: "so, did he kick you in the knee?"
ky: "yes."
us: "did he kick you in the other knee?"
ky: "yes."
us: "did he kick you in the back?"
ky: "yes."
us: "how about in the stomach?"
ky: "yes."
us: "did he throw a shoe at you?"
ky: "yes."
us: "did he throw four shoes at you?"
ky: "yes."
us: "really? four shoes?"
ky: "uh huh." (looks a bit worried)
us: "did he throw eight shoes at you?"
ky: "yes." (starting to sweat)
us: "are you sure? he really threw eight shoes at you?"
ky: nods.
us: "wow. that's a lot of shoes."
ky: "uh huh."
us: "are you sure all of this happened?"
ky: "yes..." (looks a bit nervous)
a bit more quizzing revealed that my dearest daughter had been lying through her teeth about her brother. thank goodness the bf was there with me, because i found the whole exchange to be hysterically funny. i felt like we were laywers. for the prosecution. i could barely contain my giggles.
seriously.
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